Perfection is an Illusion

I'm only human, I'm not perfect. That's the emotional excuse humans give.

But are we really imperfect?

If we all agree we are imperfect, why do we frown at people who got their body/look via surgery?

They are obviously imperfect and want to be perfect. Isn't that what the world wants so what's the problem?

You know l use to be among the crowd that chant "No one is perfect" but l left that crowd when l realized Perfection is an Illusion.

Perfection is based on individual opinion.

Perfection means different things to different people based on their beliefs.

Does perfection mean l have to be like the person you want me to be?

Does it mean getting all thing right and nothing wrong?

Does it mean living my entire life trying to be good enough for everyone (is this even possible)?

Imperfection is a word society coined to fuel low self-esteem. Is there a yardstick to measure perfection or it's just in our head that we can never be perfect?

If l do anything wrong that's a mistake it doesn't call for imperception.

I don't know about you but I'm perfect

"I am art"

Made by the finest and most celebrated artist

He looked at me and called me perfect even with my flaws

I was made perfect even before I was born

If you perceive my flaws and scars which l got from the society as imperfection

Then you insult my maker

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