Cynthia Epelle

 Nothing slowly kills relationships like comparison. We often reprimand people never to compare themselves or their spouse with someone else.  But there is one person no one has ever mentioned because we think they are not significant but they are usually the first comparison, the silent relationship slayer: have caused so many to reject proposals, be depressed, and the reason why so many said goodbye. The first comparison in almost every relationship is the "EX", and the  comparison comes in stages 1. Before the relationship starts As a girl, before accepting a proposal you want to be certain he is better than your EX, so if your EX had no car, you want the new guy to have a car/cars, and probably a house, and lands too. You don't wanna date someone your ex is better than (that is going from frying pan to fire now). And that's another reason you stalk your EX, just so you say hey his current girl/guy isn't a competition. You feel better when you perceive you'

  Both, I don’t need the cold room approach either do I need a man that can’t surprise me I winked.  (He smiled), that’s cool continue my lady.   (I continued) He has to treat me like a queen  Make me coffee every morning and night Be faithful - never cheat or lie to m... (His laugher interrupted)) Him: You mean God or a broke guy right? ( he continued laughing), I stared at him like an African mom ready to spank her child, but he didn’t understand the look else he would have never said what he said next.  I'm sorry to hurt you, but you should be old enough to know no guy is faithful to one lady. And never lie to you, that’s God stuff, make you coffee twice every day that's a jobless man’s job. I'm a guy, l know best and l speak for all men. It's our nature to cheat. And one more thing (l cut in), l hate when I'm interrupted by men who talks without control. Yeah, I hate women that talk a lot too…  At this point, I knew I'm never gonna do this again like he didn