The Dangers of Making Assumptions

Thoughts can be deceiving!!!!!!

One thing I've learned from experience is to never ASSUME.

To assume someone knows what to do/say

To assume someone knows exactly what I’m thinking or how I’m feeling.

To assume what I think about someone or something is correct.

To assume people will treat me how I want to be treated without demanding it.

Assumptions are not Communication and can be misleading. An assumption is a vague vision of what's on the other person's mind.

Assumptions are not facts, never start a fight, relationship, or business based on assumption. By communicating we understand each other. 

Most relationship end due to lack of communication- they assume their partner should know what’s on their mind even before they say the word and if their partner can’t do that it becomes “he/her doesn’t know me well”

Like you, everyone is sorting out a lot of things. They aren’t saying a lot because they don’t want to be an additional burden to you. 

If you’re mad people aren’t seeing through you, don’t you think the feeling should be mutual?

Think about it

You are not a show glass- express your feelings never ASSUME.

With ❤️ 

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