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My Opinion on Public Wedding Proposals

 Some people got engaged before, during, and after valentine's Day.


Some people proposed publicly and others in their houses. We get all emotional when we watch videos where she said yes l will marry you regardless of the location (lekki mall, Container Bistro, Michael Garden, etc)

 

I know you've watched that video where a girl was overexcited and she started screaming and couldn't control her joy. (It's funny to some people, it's spiritual to some but nobody insulted the guy for proposing in public).


But when we watch a video where the reply is "embarrassing" especially if the proposal is public we blame the men, insult them, and ask questions like


What happen to proposing at home?


You should know what your girl likes, does she like it public or hidden? Etc


No one asked these questions when the reply was positive WHY???


This is my opinion: women are to be blamed for being in a relationship with someone they can't get married to.


Even if a girl wants to have a public proposal if she doesn't like the guy proposing she wouldn't say YES??? Even if it's done in the secret, she will still say No.


But if you love a guy, you won't embarrass him by saying no in public just because you prefer an in-house proposal over a public proposal. 

I think it's important to know if the person you're dating wants to be with you.


 The location for the proposal isn't the reason why she rejected you, she doesn't like you enough to say YES 


Questions like 

Will you grow old with me?

Do you love me?

What do you love about me?


Will always have a poetic answer but will you marry me will reveal how much she loves you.

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