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The Date ll

 

Both, I don’t need the cold room approach either do I need a man that can’t surprise me I winked. 

(He smiled), that’s cool continue my lady.

 

(I continued) He has to treat me like a queen 

Make me coffee every morning and night

Be faithful - never cheat or lie to m... (His laugher interrupted))


Him: You mean God or a broke guy right? ( he continued laughing), I stared at him like an African mom ready to spank her child, but he didn’t understand the look else he would have never said what he said next.

 I'm sorry to hurt you, but you should be old enough to know no guy is faithful to one lady. And never lie to you, that’s God stuff, make you coffee twice every day that's a jobless man’s job. I'm a guy, l know best and l speak for all men. It's our nature to cheat.


And one more thing (l cut in), l hate when I'm interrupted by men who talks without control.

Yeah, I hate women that talk a lot too… 

At this point, I knew I'm never gonna do this again like he didn’t even get my point. How can he be so clueless?


So what’s your dream woman?

You're my dream woman he replied (l rolled my eyes because I can’t hurt his feelings with such a reply, l was ready to crush him and l won't feel sorry for him).

Yea you are (he continued) you're smart, beautiful, God-fearing- l need a woman who is on fire for God but not too religious when it comes to the other room, you know what I mean, he winked ( he needs a God-fearing Nicki Minaj l smiled)

Good cook (l was lost, l can’t remember offering him food l prepared) 

I know you will respect me and my family, and one more thing you have to thrive to be friends with my mom, l don't want to ever be faced with choosing who comes first in my life (it looks like we are planning a family here and not having a date).

I won’t want my wife to work, l want her to be a housewife (the warriors in my head rejoiced, l can attack)

No woman in this 21st century will accept being a housewife. except she’s fresh out of the village.... I interrupted 

No, l want a woman that is educated. 

What you mean is, you need an educated housewife. Do you think women of this century just wanna sit still and look pretty?  Hell no 

Oh my, he has his hands on his cheek and I just started.

What you need is a repented sex worker who can speak in tongue. You know what Peter? maybe someday l will be with an unfaithful man, who hates the smell of coffee and will never make one for me but you’re not that man. 

You're just a scum bag, you know there are better men out there but you're not in the club and never call me again. Goodbye.


But really, are all men unfaithful? Are there no decent men out there? or probably Peter doesn't possess the qualities l need so rather than back out peacefully he tries to create a wrong picture about men in my head so l can accept him and not go in search of better.


Men, please don’t tarnish the reputation of other men just to be accepted. You don’t speak for all men you speak for yourself and the kind of friends you keep (same goes to women too).


Why do few women say men are scum? Picture this, if a girl whose first boyfriend told her "I’m a guy and I speak for all men" was trash and violent, and had friends that are like him and worst maybe she has an abusive father, it will take more than words to convince her that some men are sweet.


And yes, there are faithful men, who will make coffee and serve me breakfast in bed. And there are women out there who will be delighted to be housewives, they want to be there for their kids. 

Whoever you want to be with is on earth and he or she doesn’t have to have a sad story or be broke to be yours.

Never let anyone tame your dream for their selfish interest.

And if God has to come down to be that man or send an angel to you then he will do that for your sake but never accept ordinary when you deserve extra.

Make good choices 

Thanks for reading... I love you

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