Nothing slowly kills relationships like comparison. We often reprimand people never to compare themselves or their spouse with someone else. But there is one person no one has ever mentioned because we think they are not significant but they are usually the first comparison, the silent relationship slayer: have caused so many to reject proposals, be depressed, and the reason why so many said goodbye. The first comparison in almost every relationship is the "EX", and the comparison comes in stages 1. Before the relationship starts As a girl, before accepting a proposal you want to be certain he is better than your EX, so if your EX had no car, you want the new guy to have a car/cars, and probably a house, and lands too. You don't wanna date someone your ex is better than (that is going from frying pan to fire now). And that's another reason you stalk your EX, just so you say hey his current girl/guy isn't a competition. You feel better when you perceive you'...
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